Subject 29: Inside Girlboss Rally

Inside Girlboss Rally

2019 L.A.| Behind the scenes and Panel Highlights

Journey with me! In this video vlog, I take you inside and behind the scenes of Girlboss Rally 2019, at UCLA in Los Angeles. So many wisdom gems were dropped at the rally.  Women came from all over the place, and the world to assemble in sisterhood, share, and learn together. The weather was warm, sunny, and electric. The whole function was vibing high.  Thank you, Summertime in California! 

So many places I could start. So, let's start here: GirlBOSSESS were everywhere!!


Throughout the day, I felt a kindred-ness with every lady I met. That's sisterhood. What a beautiful wavelength?! That’s just how it should be: the sisterhood supporting each other.


The topics and sessions at the rally were as diverse as you could imagine. So many feminine voices and minds sharing insight, tips, gifts, and wisdom. At the rally, Rupi Kaur recited her powerful poetry, my dear sister-friend Erica Chidi Cohen, author, doula, and founder of Loom in Los Angeles, shared here thoughts and grace with the audience, and Girlboss’s founder and CEO, Sophia Amoruso gave the opening address and chatted about all things entrepreneur-hood. As a lady entrepreneur (a.k.a. Girlboss), having a network and platform such as Girlboss to tap into is a beyond valuable.

GIRLBOSS RALLY  Dream Out Loud wall:  A WALL OF DREAMS AND ASPIRATIONS. I LEFT A NOTE ON THE WALL. WITH LOVE.

GIRLBOSS RALLY Dream Out Loud wall:

A WALL OF DREAMS AND ASPIRATIONS. I LEFT A NOTE ON THE WALL. WITH LOVE.



“We may falter, we are human, it’s okay. I always say, journey with power and grace…”

– LALAH DELIA


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Girlboss Rally, UCLA, Los Angeles | L to R: Liz Hernandez, Lalah Delia, Jerico Mandybur, Lauren Ash | Photo Credit: Rachel Murray, Getty Images

About our panel


Our panel included other like-minded lady entrepreneurs (a.k.a. Girlbosses) who I admire. One, in particular, my good sister-friend Lauren Ash, speaker, founder of Black Girl in Om, and also the host of the Black Girl in Om podcast. I met Liz Hernandez, creator, and founder of Wordaful, and moderator Jerico Mandybur, author, self-care coach, and spiritual guide, or the first time IRL. They were beautiful souls.


You know when you meet IRL and it feels like you've already met before? Yeah, it was that kind of glorious energy.


Our panel’s focus was all about self-care, a very welcomed request from Girlboss. Our theme and title was title Slowing Down and Being Kind(er) to Yourself. I'm convinced that vibrating higher daily through self-care changes the game and allows higher purpose to actualize. This has been the case over and over again in my life and in the lives of my good entrepreneur friends.


No matter where we find ourselves and no matter what our tasks, aspirations, and goals at hand are and set before us, as we take care of ourselves, we embody more and more personal power and grit, to make it all a reality. Both of which are a must in when going after and manifesting your dreams, goals, and visions.


Self-care re-ignites our fire and passion. It nourishes us, fuels us,  and restores us, helping us to show up daily as higher potential vessels and conduits in the world, especially when we're feeling depleted and worn out. Self-care anyone? 


And of course, fortifying through self-care helps empower us to become the Gilrbosses we envision ourselves being; it sustains us!!


Find your soul's medicine.


Reflect on the various ways self-care empowers you. What methods and forms of self-care help you vibrate higher and feel like you again? Once you have an answer, you have the pathway. Whatever it is that makes you vibrate higher daily, do more and more of that. That's your soul's medicine. And, it’s essential to the smaller and bigger process at work in your life. 



“Self-care for me is a place where you go and you don’t leave until you’re empowered.”

–Lalah Delia




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Transcribed

Here are Some of My Talking points

Self-care for me is a place where you go and you don’t leave until you’re empowered. It’s is a pathway to empowerment for me.

 

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Self-care is not something new. The word is new, but the governing practice has been moving through a different language, throughout different times. And so, this is our time.

We have to remember that our ancestors, the generations before us, always had a way to slow down, to connect and to reset. And in the Black tradition - it would be our spirituality. Going way-way back it was still-away in solitude when possible, spirituality, gathering, and singing spirituals by a river. And in the Civil Rights movements, they had prayer meetings and meetings in each other’s homes. For our generation it is different. We don’t do the same things or fight the same struggles, but we are a continuation of their work. And so we have to remember that we have to self-care to get through and over: to vibrate higher daily. 


They didn’t have the tools that we have today. We are so fortunate. Being a continuation of their work, we have no excuse not to be on the front lines and to be empowered. We may falter, we are human, it’s okay. I always say, journey with power and grace, because on some days, you will find yourself depleted. Being spiritual beings in these human bodies can be exhausting, so when you find yourself exhausted, I always say take all the time you need to feel like you again. When you remember who you are, the game changes. That’s through self-care for me, that’s what the empowering practice is about. 

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Self-care is going to be the foundation for you, and it’s always going to go back to that. 


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Each of you have a mission that you were brought to this planet with, and without self-care you’re gonna forget who you are, people will deplete you, you'll feel stuck, and always on the sidelines, but with self-care, which is something to get you going–you get back in the game with fresh higher vibrations and energy, and you become the empowered hero of your life again. And, you'll serve and show up in a greater capacity and potential.


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In the Buddhist tradition, the root of all suffering is not being in the present moment. So you’re either thinking about the past or about the future. That’s a quick way to ground: ok let me think, me at this very moment, wherever I find myself, I'm ok I’m good. And from there if you are feeling stuck or weary or tired, any type of fear-based thoughts come up, just switch that, switch the vibration. i teach all about vibration, and it’s just turning the radio up. And you start affirming, I am more than able to do this. You visualize yourself doing that thing empowered or you visualize the outcome being okay. 

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For me, a thing that always brings me back, is gratitude. In this world, the feminine is rising at a level that is truly astounding, and we are breaking down patriarchal models, and paths. The whole get rich without trying, no, no thank you. That goes against everything that is self-care is about, and that goes against the natural rhythm of who a woman is. We can go slow, we have cycles, we can be in the present moment and know that everything is coming to us. We are meeting ‘it’ as we are being who we are and showing up [in the present]. We have a cycle. So that’s patience in itself. Embody that. 

What this can look like for me, is when I feel like I’m not doing enough or something should be happening quicker, I go to gratitude. What’s happening right now? And a lot of times I’m like wait a minute, i have so much to be grateful for right now. And so i go to my gratitude list and I’ll start listing three things I’m grateful for. 

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Journey in grace. 

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You don’t have to be so strict with this. Have fun. The Universe has a sense of humor, God has a sense of humor. If you look at your journey it’s pretty funny. When we can laugh about it, it really makes the healing and the vibration change and it neutralizes a lot of triggers. 

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When we are so pushed to perform and to compare ourselves, I just want to bring comparison in here, because when we’re comparing we’re not [living] in the now. You are in a sacred process of always unfolding and becoming, and so who you are right now, deserves your attention and deserves your presence and deserves that you be fully engaged in where you are. 


When you can be fully engaged, you show up as a powerhouse wherever you go. You’re not trying to be anyone else. You are who you are. Be fully embodied, engaged, and integrated with who you are. For me, that’s how I’ve been able to really live in my now moments. The future will take care of itself, you got this. 

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Self-care is not selfish. Sometimes women are taught to give, give, give, and aren’t giving to themselves, and that if you do take time to yourself it’s selfish. There shouldn’t be any shame around self-care - it’s not selfish. 

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When you find yourself doing something and being hard on yourself or feel down if it’s not working for you, know that someone else’s path may not your path. You’re a unique individual. Not that it’s not the right path for you because it doesn’t work, but because you’re unique. Be okay with exploring. That’s the fun part of self-care, that you can explore all you want. Also in different seasons in your life, your self-care routines will change. Be okay if you have to transition out of a routine that doesn’t work for you currently. That’s been my biggest relief, when I can say, ok it’s not that it’s not working for me it’s just not working for me now, it’s not the way, it’s not for this season. And then I can pick up and do something new. That’s a good way to explore.

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Contemplation &

Reflection

What does self-care mean and look like to you?

Were you brought up seeing what self-care looks like?

Have you established healthy boundaries in your life?

How will you create a strong and devoted relationship with self-care?

How might you support a loved one’s need for self-care?

How can you be kind(er) to yourself?

Have a question, or

something to share?

Drop a comment below. Your thoughts, questions, and feedback, are welcomed, valued, appreciated.


Girlboss Rally

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Subject 28: Self-Dates: Taking Time for Yourself

Self-Dates: Taking

Time for Yourself

A visual meditation and Virtual outinG for you. Plus First Podcast!

Journey with me as I go out on a self-date. In this video vlog, which doubles as a visual meditation and virtual outing, I spend nourishing alone and explorative time at The Getty Museum in sunny Los Angeles. Taking time for ourselves is essential. It’s how we continually learn ourselves. It’s a great way to cultivate our inner-lives, inner-peace, and greater self-awareness and worth. And, it’s how we take our power back. Solitude is sacred!

Drop a comment below to let us know if you like this new style of vlogging. Your feedback helps us create more of what you’re loving. And, it helps us mix things up around here too! Yay!

Love you, so much! Relax, rest, and enjoy!



“Sometimes, you have to go off alone, to come back and be better. Solitude is sacred.”

– LALAH DELIA


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Self-Dates: Taking time for Yourself

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Contemplation

There are many reasons and times when being alone with yourself is cathartic, essential, necessary, and cleansing. Such as:

  • To process emotions, you're experiencing

  • To discharge heavy energy/s

  • To release emotional stress

  • To release what isn't yours vibrationally

  • To clear your mind

  • To seek and gain clarity

  • To listen to your inner voice

  • To connect to Higher Power

  • Refresh and reset your spirit, soul, mind, and vibrational field

Where are at least three places you can take yourself out on a self-date this summer ?

IMPLEMENTATION

Things To Do Solo:

1. Volunteer time: go alone and spend a day away from your life and impact someone else's. What causes are you passionate about? Where/who can use your gifts. Volunteering is also a great way to learn new skills. A new craft in particular for me (although I wasn't alone) was learning to build a picket fence while volunteering with Habitat for Humanity. A whole picket fence, ya'll! The thing that stood out to me was that the process of building a fence felt like a meditation. It was the most relaxing deep physical labor! Who knew!?

2. Mother Nature: Let mother nature be your guide and companion. Nature is one of the most powerful, potent, and effective conduits available to us. Time spent in nature is soul medicine, it's cleansing, and most of the time it's free! Unless you're at a National Park or State Beach, whereas there 's a small fee to enter or park. These fees are contributions. They help with the upkeep of preserving these local and national natural spaces and treasures.

Go out and explore nature. Happy adventures to you! Don't litter.

3. Go to a sacred site or space: Spending time in sacred spaces alone is so very freeing. Without the company of someone else in your life present, you can allow your spirit and heart open up in profound ways that only alone and solitude time births. The good news is that The Most High and your divine guides are always with you.

Some of the other ways are:

Going to a garden

A favorite restaurant

A museum

A concert

Go check out a movie

Going hiking

Dropping in a new class

Hitting the road. Take a road trip

Other forms of travel

Use discernment and wisdom wherever you go. Stay mindful of your surroundings. Plan ahead. Leave a note with someone. Go have fun!

INTROSPECTION

  1. What are your intentions for taking time for yourself?

  2. Go within. Listen. Where is your life and soul asking you to go?

  3. Can you feel and sense with clarity where you’re being called to expand and vibrate higher through solitude?

  4. Are there healthy boundaries in place to support your ‘me-time’?

  5. If not, how will you set them and honor them?

  6. What is your soul’s medicine this season? What’s nourishing you? What’s currently feeding your soul? Do more of that! Alone!

  7. Where in your life are you feeling lead to be alone more often?

  8. How will you honor the process?

Related Quotes

“Freeing yourself was one thing, claiming ownership of that freed self was another.”

― Toni Morrison, Beloved

“Loving ourselves works miracles in our lives.”

― Louise Hay

“Your relationship with yourself sets the tone for every other relationship you have.”

― Unknown

“Yesterday I was clever, so I wanted to change the world. Today I am wise, so I am changing myself.”

― Rumi


Find Your soul’s

Medicine.

–Lalah Delia


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Subject 27: 3 Things I'm Learning This Season

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“This season is a sacred part of the process.”

– LALAH DELIA


3 Things I’m Learning

This Season

Subject 27: 3 Things I’m Learning This Season

Journey with me! Come along, as I spend nourishing time in nature’s sanctuary and reflect on 3 Things I’m Learning in This Season. I’ve been paying deep attention to my life and honoring the process. It’s a beautiful thing when we reach a place of sacred flow. Where we aren’t forcing our life, but instead flowing and being in sacred tune: with it, with sacred divine timing, and with the bigger divine process happening for us–and through us.

In this video vlog, I share what I’m learning and leaning all the more into this season.

Also, drop a comment below to let us know if you like this new style of vlogging. Your feedback helps us create more of what you’re loving. And it helps us mix things up around here too! Yay!

Love you, so much! Enjoy!

Butterfly vibrations. The butterflies love me! And they love you!

Butterfly vibrations. The butterflies love me! And they love you!

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Contemplation

What are 3 Things you’re learning This season?

What Are you Learning:

  1. Mind-wise

  2. Body-wise

  3. Spirit-wise

  4. Soul-wise

  5. Social-wise

  6. Vibration-wise

You are being divinely guiding on your journey. Your Higher Power knows the best way. Honoring the process and guidance is how you take your power back, and/or stay in your place of power.

IMPLEMENTATION

Waht is the SACRED WORK To Do?

Stay Ready. Fortify. Do more of what sharpens you, nourishes you, and gives you power: mind, body, spirit, soul, vibrational. This helps you to show up ready and in your power, and to remain composed, graceful, and poised.  

What can you do more of in this season? What can you do less of?



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INTROSPECTION

  1. Are you listening to your body and to your life?

  2. Go within. Listen. What is it communicating to you?

  3. Observe your life and take note. Do more of what makes it and you vibrate higher daily.

  4. Are there things, or people, that are no longer serving you in this season?

  5. What is your soul’s medicine this season? What’s nourishing you? What’s currently feeding your soul?

  6. Are you honoring this season and it’s process?

  7. How can you honor it more?


Be mindful and open to what your soul’s medicine is and isn’t this season.

–Lalah Delia


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Subject 26: Navigating Your Desert as a Millennial w/India

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Navigating Your

Desert

w/India

Hello all!

Today’s class will be held by the lovely India (me!). I’m Lalah’s daughter, for those who don’t know, and I serve as a VHD team member. I’m so overjoyed to be sharing my insight on the desert terrain, as I’m currently journeying through one in this season of my life. Being that I am indeed a millennial, 21, I’m fully aware of the significance of acknowledging, recognizing, and knowing how to navigate through your desert early on in life.

Throughout life, we may be called to go to a sacred place within ourselves, with ourselves, to purge, receive, release, make space for new, disconnect, become “you” again, open ourselves up for spiritual growth, enter a new season/ chapter in your life, and so much more!

In this video, I’ll be giving you a fresh perspective on how to successfully recognize and/or overcome your terrain to assist you in reaching your fullest potential. Because ultimately, that’s what it’s all about! :)



“Sometimes, you have to go be alone to come back and be better. Solitude is sacred. ”

– LALAH DELIA


Navigating your

desert

w/India

Subject 26: Navigating The Desert


TALKING POINTS


1. Recognizing when it’s time to enter your desert

2. Emotional Care and support

3. Protecting Your energy

4. Significance of desert


Implementation

5 practices to help you journey though your desert


  1. Prayer and other spiritual work

  2. Meditation

  3. Taking tonics as needed

  4. Self-care: baths, binaural beats, massage, rest, fitness, nourishing foods…etc

  5. Mindfulness: stay mindful of why you’re being called to be in your desert.


 

Introspection

  1. Are you recognizing the signs that you’re being lead to the desert?

  2. Are you in the desert now?

  3. Are you staying away from the things that no longer serve you?

  4. What does your environment look and feel like? Is it supporting your terrain?

  5. Are you honoring the process?

Contemplation

What are the things that make you vibrate higher daily? Use these tools to keep you not only sustained, but empowered in the desert.


What are your goals and intentions for this terrain? Keep in mind that your desert has a higher purpose.



“sometimes, you have to go be alone to come back and be better. Solitude is sacred.”

- Lalah delia


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Sister Talk: Spring Cleaning Your Life w/Maryam Hasnaa

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Spring Cleaning Your

Life

Sister Talk:w/Maryam Hasnaa



My dear friend Maryam and I chat about the symbolism of spring time in our lives and how we ‘spring clean’ our lives and work with new spring time energies and its vitality for our higher good. Spring is a powerful season of refreshing, restoration, and rebirth. Enjoy the vibes!

How are you using this spring season for your good? Are you refreshing, restoring, and rebirthing?


Spring Cleaning Your

Life

Spring Cleaning



“If STAY READY AND YOU DON’T HAVE TO GET READY.”

– STREET PROVERB ;)



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Subject 25: BODY WORK: For Coming Home to Yourself

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Body Work

FOR COMING HOME TO YOURSELF

The body is a magnet and is absorbing energies all day long, all of the time. Are you aware of it? Do you feel it? Your body is always speaking in direct effect to your day, your thoughts, your choices, your interactions, and your experiences. Listen and honor it.

In this class, we explore doing just that and more, like empowering it and helping it to thrive. YES INDEED!



“BODY-CARE IS HOW YOU TAKE YOUR POWER BACK.”

– LALAH DELIA


Body Work

FOR COMING HOME TO YOURSELF.

Subject 25: Body Work


TALKING POINTS

Energy Cleansing:

How to discharge energy

Cleanliness is next to godliness 

Soaking in epsom salt, essential oils or recommended products

Binaural beats

and more ways shared in the video

 

Body Work:

Working out/staying active/moving the energy around and out

Reflexology/massages 

Baths to soak body stress away

Nourishing with healing foods

Slowing down, pausing, relaxing, and restoring 

Reserving your energy 

Storing energy

Healthy desired weight for you


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Implementation

SET BOUNDARIES

Boundaries are about living in honor and reverence to who you are as a vessel and soul being, and not entwining yourself with what isn’t in service to your highest good, or with the higher good of the collective. It’s not personal, it’s vibrational. It’s energy.


OBSERVE

Keep a mindful eye on what’s happening in your body, in your personal space, and in the settings around you while out in public spaces. When you're observant, you have more power to respond instead of react. And to tend to your body’s needs. You have the power. Distinguish what yours and what’s someone else’s vibration and projections. Acknowledge any areas you’re being called to do the work, to restore, to nourish, to nurture, to heal, to charge, to slow down, to release, to move, and so on.

Be mindful and observant of what you’re taking in and being exposed to and how much.


SACRED PROTECTION

You’ve done the work, now it’s time to guard your body temple. Doing the work is a form protection.  


DO YOUR SACRED WORK

Stay Ready. Fortify. Do more of what sharpens you, nourishes you, and gives you power: mind, body, spirit, soul, vibrational. This helps you to show up ready and in your power, and to remain composed, graceful, and poised.  


Introspection

  1. How have you been treating your body?

  2. Are you loving your body into well being?

  3. Do you speak empowering words that serve and affirm your body, or that don’t?

  4. Are you listening to your body and honoring what it’s communicating to you?

  5. Are you honoring your body as the temple and sacred ground that it is?

  6. Are you empowering your body as the vessel and vehicle it is?

Contemplation

  1. What do you love about your body?

  2. What about your body are you grateful for?

  3. What is your body thriving from as of lately?

  4. What is depleting it and/or causing not to thrive?

  5. Where can you send more love within?

  6. How can you poise and fortify yourself to show up in your power?

  7. How can you rise above, vibrate higher daily, and thrive your way forward?



Journey in grace and power.


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Subject 24: Navigating This Life

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Navigating This Life

Replay From Live Online class


Live class, chat, and Q + A are back in this one!

Life is suppose to empower us and fortify us into higher, proper, and necessary, action.

So much is going on in various directions and we are feeling it deep: spiritually, mentally, emotionally, energetically, physically, and vibrationally. Just in all the ways. We are looking for our place, balance, purpose, way, and power, in it all. The inner and outer awakening is no doubt happening. We see that there are high vibrations and low vibrations are at war, within or without, near and far. We are being called rise into our higher potential on all levels, all the more.

In this class, we navigate into it.



Be in the world, but not of it.

– scripture


“She emerged from it all transformed.”

– Lalah Delia


Navigating This Life



Talking Points:

  1. Realize Your Role:

    In order to navigate this life, it going to take realizing Our role here as: Angels, Warriors, and Overseers, vessels and conduits. Which are you?  

     

  2. Honor Your Spiritual Instincts:

    It takes honoring your spiritual instincts: over everything.

    And living live by it/them.


  3. Protocol:

    A code or system you live by. 

    What lifestyle best supports who you are? What nutritional path, what self-care routine, what type of people and relationships, what type of environment? 


  4. Set Boundaries:

    Boundaries are about living faithfully to who you are as a vessel, warrior, earth angel, and soul being, and not entwining yourself with what isn’t in service to your highest good, or with the higher good of the collective. It’s not personal, it’s vibrational. It’s energy.


  5. Observe:

    Earth angels, Warriors, Teachers, Creative, and Overseers live a very observant life, because they must. Keep a mindful eye on what’s happening in your space and in the settings around you while out in public spaces. Stay security minded. This helps you to ‘not get caught slippin’. When you're observant, you have more power to respond instead of reacting. Distinguish what yours and what’s someone else’s vibration and projections. Acknowledge any areas you’re being called to develop and grow more in, to show up and serve more in, and to release, let go, and move on from. 


  6. Sacred Covenants:

    When you live and operate as the earth angel, the warrior, and vessel and conduit, there are spiritual laws that will now passionately govern your life, your choices, and actions. And there are sacred covenants that you honor and uphold as far as what you engage in and refrain from, in this life. 


  7. Stay Ready:

    Fortify. Do your sacred work. Do more of what sharpens you, nourishes you, and gives you power: mind, body, spirit, soul, vibrational. This helps you to show up ready and in your power, and to remain composed and poised on your journey.  

    “If you stay ready, you don’t have to get ready.”


  8. Integrate Your Shadow:

    You can virtuous and assertive. This is where you stop being a yes person and become brave. You now bring in your shadow and give it a healthier role, which is setting in place your ‘sacred no’s’. To stand up for your truth wherever need be. This is not about giving toxic habits in that you are being called to transcend, but about the helpful traits left that you may avoid and neglect to except as a part of you and abide in them. Your higher potential, higher purpose, higher good, and higher path will require you to be in your power. It’s about incorporating your strengths and not dumbing them down, having them under-control.


    Once intergraded it now has a higher purpose to serve you and not control you, and run wild. “What angers you controls you, have peace and you control it.” Intergrading it gives it a higher purpose. Once you integrate your shadow, the game changes and people feel it. This is where and when people say, you’ve changed, and then start coming correct. 

    “Oh she didn't get rid of it, she integrated it” Uh oh!”


    And this took me a while. It took letting go of who and what didn’t serve me in order to go be in the spiritual desert where the alchemy happens.

    “She emerged from it all transformed.”




Introspection


  1. How are you feeling?

  2. How is your heart?

  3. Are you navigating in your power and gifts?

  4. Do you feel empowered enough?

  5. Do you know how to navigate forward? Is there clarity?




Reflection


  1. Which role/s are you?

  2. What areas are you navigating in your personal life?

  3. How about in the wider world? What areas are you navigating?

  4. What areas are paining you to navigate? What areas are pure joy?

  5. How can you poise and fortify yourself to show up poised and in your power? How can you overcome distractions in your way?

  6. What shadows (limiting beliefs, fears, habits, traits, patterns, and so on) can you transmute into strengths and positives?

  7. What does emerging from all you’re navigating through transformed, look and feel like?





Journey in grace

and power.

–Lalah Delia


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Subject 23: How I Stepped Into My Purpose w/ Fear and an Imperfect Past

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How I Stepped

Into My Purpose with

Fear and an

Imperfect Past

Replay From Live Online Class

We are vessels. We are conduits. We are change agents.

Vibrating higher daily allows you-me-we-all to grow, thrive, rise, and self-actualize–as intended. As we journey with a greater sense of well-being, harmony, wholeness, and purpose, we become of higher service to ourselves, to our Divine, and to our times. Vibrating higher daily is [also] how you take your power back! Very important.

When we aren’t living out our purpose, we can find ourselves seeking ‘it’ in all the wrong places and ways that only pursuing and living our purpose will.

The wrong thing may seem to satisfy, but never really for long.

Our purpose is always a part of our healing and our on-going development, and so, it’s essential to do what it is you’re here to do to reach your fuller higher potential self.

No matter what you’ve been through or how much fear or confusion may be clouding the higher path forward, the path is real and ready for you to it take on.

And all you’ve been through has fortified you. You more ready than you may realize! Start where you can. No matter how big, small, or entry level. Just get in the game. That’s how all you need to level up comes to you.

Doing the day-today work of vibrating higher is how your purpose reveals itself, more and more

In this class, I share about overcoming all that I had to in order to step into my purpose, and shift into a new destiny and reality.



Don’t let people edit your dreams and your decrees because of their own self-doubt and lower self-worth.

–Lalah Delia


Do what makes you vibrate higher daily. This charges you as the conduit. 

– Lalah Delia




How I Stepped

Into My Purpose with

Fear and an

Imperfect Past Pt.1

Replay From Live Online Webinar

Subject 23

PT. 2

Subject 23 Pt. 2

Talking Points:

  1. Decide:

    •We are not what happens to us. We are who overcomes

    • The plot twist is that it all works for your good and purpose

     

  2. Introspection:

    • Getting real with myself: What do I have to improve 

    • No more defeated or victim mindset 

    • Make the choice to step into your purpose 

  3. Guidance & Support System:

    Call in your mentors, teachers, guides, and like-minded community

  4. Transformation, Resilience, and Grit:

    Work through resistance and old patterns

    Jumping timelines 

    Do the work

  5. Spiritual Covering:

    Deepen your faith 

    Stay connected to your higher source for fortification, protection, and guidance

  6. Mindset:

    • Don

    •Be mindful of resistance showing up. Move through it

    • Show up and take up space

    • Feel the fear and doing it anyway 

    • Non-competitive vibes only 

    • What’s for you cannot be taken 

    • All is in divine timing 

    • Trust the process

    • Start where you are 

    • Have daily gratitude for the gift 

    • Continue to develop and cultivate your gift and mind

  7. Embodiment:

    • It is not separate from you.You don’t just do, you are it

    • Your lifestyle supports your gift and purpose



Introspection

  1. Where are you at purpose wise? Are you currently living in your purpose?

  2. If not, begin to look at and take note of what your passions and gifts are and what you feel called and lead to do in the world, that will put you in sacred service. This can be fun! Maybe it something in the world that pains you though. Put your passion and pain together and begin to offer and serve. Your gifts were created to be part of the plan. And will continue to reveal themselves as you journey forward in purpose, with an open heart and mind.

  3. If you are already operating in your purpose are you showing up fully? Are you living in embodiment? Does your daily lifestyle and environment support you as the vessel and conduit?

  4. Do you have a support system? How will you cultivate it or call it in?

  5. Are there any relationships, habits, cycles, or patterns that hinder you from living in your purpose? If so, what will you do to rise up and out, and overcome a life that doesn’t serve or support who you are here to be?

  6. Realize that you are enough and that your gifts, callings, and purpose, are necessary to us all.




Once you begin, you no longer have energy for the people or things once not serving you.

–Lalah Delia